So what did we do?
First week of hols whirlwind if fun with my cousins from the states.
Second week... kids went to the zoo and sea games diving
Fri sat at hotel jen in jb. Swimming bed movies .
Third week... with in laws.
Sea games badminton
Farms
Swimming
Hopefully punggol waterfront
Kalai nigalchi
I'd like to go to the beach for cycling or to a water park or sentosa cove. ..
Just got back from a weekend in jb. Such a good time we had.
After just two days away together. .. ashwin and aishu seem closer to me. Kind of brought home the fact how much time we should spend with them. Hoe much more time. Usual daily life it feels like I see them for barely an hour! It's all routine routine routine. Feeding scolding sending to bed. Always tons of other things to do while the just grow up. 😣.
I'm not sure what to do about it though. This is the one week I've taken off to spend with them. Though I may end up at work one or two days.
We had such a cool time in the pool. I feel like I want to take them swimming again and again this week. I think I shall. Older two. Then all three. For all three I really need another person with me .
He said he loves me! My baby boy. Wanted me to put him to bed today . Helped me make the beds . Asked me what it means to make the bed. This morning he was talking earnestly to his sis... we are not brats right akshaya!
Later after lunch a small scuffle and aishu on the floor. I rushed to her saying it's OK. . It was an accident right ashwin? And he said.. it was a little bit purposely and in sorry!!!!! Super charmer lah he.
He is so protective of baby despite the occasional purposeful pushing. Like yesterday she was climbing just one foot onto a railing. He got so worried. Yelled to get my attention. Tried to pull her away from the rail. Stepped in front her to block her access to the rail! Very cute.
Akshaya was an angel yesterday. Helped me to look after ashwin during lunch feeding him blowing at hot food for him encouraging him to try new things non judgementally. Informed me I have to give him 6 stickers. He asked her 6 stickers is good right? Haha so charming!
Then at home also helped unpack and then bathed ashwin too. Asked me for a story.
Real darling ..
She is so super touched that her baby sister comes to console her every to e she cries.
My super blessings all three.
Then my kutty. Wants to be so independent. Likes to feed her elf grabs the spoon from me. Wants to eat off the colourful shop plates. Not her clean bowl!
Loves swimming won't get out of her float. Wants to just stay in the water. Such a delight!
Best part of holiday... the pools the bed the TV! Haha! And all five of us being together!
She's such a sweetheart. Empathetic discerning beyond her years... and yet still a child! She is really going to grow up so quickly. I have to spend as much time as I can with her!
Yesterday we went to the sea games. She enjoyed it most. Diving. Very new fir her. So concerned for the young man who dived wrongly and may have hurt himself.
Then she and I stayed on for the over publicised carnival that was a bit of a let down . Then ate. Them shopped . Pretty fun. Cranky like anything at home. Then built a tent. Then OK.
Hmm bit hard I think seeing my lineage
My grandmother believes in pampering to the core
My mother pampers to the core
What am I likely to do?
My only hope is saro.
