Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Time

Today I woke up at 4.30 to do some work. Cone 6.30 still hadn't done anything.  Felt like it was a bit of a waste. Like I accomplished nothing

But then thought... no way! I comforted my baby who called out to me aatha come her come here! Gave her milk. I comforted my son who had bad dreams. Told him stories of muruga.  Enjoyed a quiet 5 min with my eldest she lay on  my lap as she woke up... what better way to spend the morning! 

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Little Aishu

Kutty baby is growing so quickly! 
She is almost a year and a half .
She is talking!
Here's her vocab list:
Abi sit down there!
Neigh
Moo
Various animal sounds
Every thing we say
Plee
Tank
Soyee
Latest yesterday: after hearing the bhajan ' gana pathy! !!
Naka Naka (very loudly!  Current fav song)
Lallee lalee chubee

So adorable. Someone hurts her she'll come by to complain...
Sibling cry she'll say anna don't cy akka don't cy

Loving sweetheart!
If ashwin hits me she'll rub my back and tell him "Anna don't ".

If I pretend to cry she'll come to hug and comfort.

She wants to eat on her own.
yesterday breakfast she was tearing off small bits of  pancake dipping in syrup and eating!
For lunch, to prevent me from feeding her she holds my finger tight away from the plate so she can dip and eat on her own using her other hand! 

Such an adorable sweetheart!

Aadhi and kaarthi and nalla adore her! 

Sunday, July 5, 2015

Ashwin realizes

So ashwin  starting showing some inclination of understanding what it means to eat non veg yesterday. 

I was quite troubled at the way he ... seemingly callously... sees a chicken and announces chicken curry!

Or sees rows of fish at the market without exclaiming or being squeamish.

But yesterday he helped marinate a fish and noticed it was silver and asked where it's tail was.

When I explained the tail had been cut off a few minutes later he told aye nan "poor fish aunty it's tail got cut off"

Still later while eating ... next time let's not eat fish aatha.  Poor fish.  Let's have chicken!  "

I asked... " how bout the chicken?  Not poor chicken? " he replied not the farm chicken aatha. The other chickens! 

Not bad. At least some sense of feeling for the creatures we eat. A sense of differentiating between  the animals we know of and see vs the nameless ones.

He loves fish and chicken by the way. 

Interesting. 

If we make clear the connection that what we eat used to live I think more would be vegetarian. 

We just conveniently blind ourselves and go for the taste.  Hmm

Friday, July 3, 2015

Non stop entertainment

It's like sit com at home continously
Yesterday ashwin warned aishu not to touch his blocks while he was gone saying " aishu.  If you touch Anna 's blocks Anna will go over your head!". She immediately holds her head looks up and days "oooo". Seeing she understood he says "good girl". She agrees good gi".

Too funny these little ones!

Ashen wants to go to aayas house
As usual.  She's got plans.she says "I'm going for dinner ashwin". He replies " I like dinner aaya!"

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