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saro has been offered the post of secretary at mariamman temple. its a huge honour

he wants and needs family support 

we do

but we have all been scarred the last time he took on 2 temples which meant 3 temples 

and so kids let him know how they felt yesterday 

a tearful evening all round 

they and i don't want to lose what we have with him now

kids made valid points. they don't want to make an appt to see him. they want him to be available. otherwise it doesn't feel like family. 

so let's see. 

saronsaid he'll try to wake up mornings and spend time with kids then..

between saro and me we will try to fix some days a week to meet as a family. e.g. Wednesdays.