however we need to help her look beyond her health conditions and not feel sorry for herself
she needs to stop feeling a victim and take control of her life again
How you can celebrate small successes darling!
you:
- ate late night dinner with no issues
- ate panneer with no issue- both signs if improving health because of all your perseverance and self discipline in taking your medicines
- were able to focus in a new math tuition class despite feeling nervous, and apply learning, showing dedication and willingness to learn and grow
- spoke to new kids at bhajan, willing to step out of shell when nec, showing courage
- led games at kavins party, willing to set aside personal pains and worries for sake of loved ones
- demonstrated self control at the parties, with regard to food, showing great maturity and trust,
- finding new recipes that make life interesting again showing willingness to try new things and being open
- consistently taking the modulant even if not enjoyable, showing determination to get well and perseverance and sense of duty
- found pockets of time in school to do homework even before coming home- showing dedication, motivation and resourcefulness.
- survived a full day of lessons despite headaches and other aches and pains. You are a champion already darling
Now we just have to keep going step by step.
I love you
everyday stop a minute and tell yourself all that you have done well. you do so many things you don't even realise!
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